Sibling Loss 🖤
Losing a sibling changes you… forever.
If you’re part of this club too, I’m so sorry 🤍
I’m creating episodes for Unfiltered. Unhealed; to honor the siblings we loved and lost. If you feel called to share, I would be honored to hold space for your story - completely on your terms (even anonymously).
Because they still matter. They will always matter.
Reach out if you’re ready.
Still here. Still healing. Still siblings. 🪽
Unhealed. Siblings;
Podcast Details
Submit your story
You can write and submit your story for someone else to read on your behalf. OR you can record it yourself and email it to me.
Record with Me
We can schedule virtual meetings or a simple phone call if you prefer to record with me.
Solo Recording Tips:
• Use your phone’s Voice Memos (or similar app)
• Find a quiet space (closets work great for sound)
• Turn on airplane mode
• Set your phone 6–8 inches away (don’t hold it)
• Speak slightly past the phone, not directly into it
• Clap once before you start and leave ~5 seconds of silence
When you’re done, email your recording to me.
General Guidelines:
• Recordings can be a maximum of 30 mins each.
• You can record solo or have someone join you if that makes it easier.
• Don’t Forget To Complete & Sign The Release!
Not Allowed:
• Excessive strong profanity throughout the recording.
• Hate speech, harassment, or targeting individuals/groups.
• Violent threats, incitement, or abusive language.
• Illegal or dangerous instructions.
Unhealed. Siblings;
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My Brother...
Pat Pat is my little brother. My only sibling. My best friend and, at times, he was my worst enemy.
More than anything, though, was the kind of person who would give you his last sip of water without second thought. He could make people laugh when they needed it most, and he had a way of showing up for the people he loved. He was an incredible uncle, a talented cook, builder, and fixer of just about anything.
We lost Pat in 2020.
No matter how much loss you've experienced, nothing prepares you for losing your sibling. There are still days when life feels normal, like he's just away and will walk through the door again.
Then grief reminds me he's gone.
It floods in when his daughter reaches new milestones without him. While I watch our Mom and Dad grow older without their son. When I think about all the conversations we never got to have, the hugs his nieces will never get again.
Unfortunately I have a feeling the real moments of grief are yet to come.
However, I am so grateful he is out of pain. And I do have full faith I will hug my brother again. Until then - I love you Pat Pat <3
- Forever “Pat’s Sister”
Unhealed. Siblings; On Etsy
Unhealed. Siblings; is more than a collection - it is a love letter to the siblings we lost from the siblings left behind.
Inspired by my brother Pat, this collection was created to give surviving siblings a place to feel seen.
Because grief changes over time, but love doesn't and it always feels better to say their name.
